
I am continually blown away by the kindness of the people here. Mind you the particular group I'm talking about spends their free time giving out "Free Hugs," but this is beside the point.
I am sitting at a table full of strangers, but everyone feels like an old friend of mine. As I announce my departure from the restaurant to head back to Florence the table erupts in protest. One particular lady says I can spend the night at her house and head back to Florence in the morning. I tell her I wear contact lenses and have to take them out when I sleep. She says it's not a problem as she points out a gentleman sitting down the table from us. He smiles and waves as she tells me he has some solution and cases I can use for the night. I also tell her I grind my teeth at night and I need to sleep with a mouth guard. My new friend Rosa interjects with "You can't just go one night without it?" I am beginning to feel like I am coming across as ungrateful and rude at this point, refusing such hospitable gestures from people I have only known for a day. My broken Italian is only making matters worse. I finally tell her the real reason I have to go home is because I am feeling a little under the weather and would hate to get everyone sick. They concede at last and say anytime I come back I am welcome.
This is what happens when I get a message entitled "Want to come to Bologna with me this weekend to give out free hugs?"
Oh yeah. Every time.
I met this guy Michel at the couch surfing dinner I went to in Florence the first week I was here. He speaks Italian and Spanish. He sent me a facebook message inviting me to Bologna with him. So Saturday Michel and I hoppe

d on a train to Bologna and wandered around the city for a few hours. Later in the afternoon we met up with a bunch of his friends at the Piazza Maggiore and started giving out free hugs, or "Abbracci Gratis." The Free Hugs Campaign started in 2006 by
Juan Mann, who wanted "to reach out and hug a stranger to brighten up their lives." Although I had heard about before, it this was my first time giving out free hugs. Most people walked on by perplexed or annoyed by what our group was offering. But the people who took us up on our charity were as excited about it as we were. Some of the people we hugged busted out pieces of paper, scribbled "Free Hugs" on them and joined our ranks. I don't think it would have been nearly as fun either if it would have been in an English speaking country. Everyone was joking around with the people passing by saying "This kid came all the way from San Diego to give free hugs."
It's true. That's why I am here.
After the hugs were all given out we went to a restaurant to eat at the equivalent (but not really) of happy hour in Italy. It's called Aperitivo. Between 6 and 9 PM you go to a bar and buy a drink for 5-8 € and get to eat a free buffet. Not a bad deal if you want to have a drink with dinner.
When I decided it was time for me to go Michel and Rosa insisted on walking me to the station to make sure I got on the right train back to Florence. I told them it was alright, but I was glad they accompanied me. I didn't trust myself quite yet traveling alone in Italy. On the walk to the station Rosa was singing the theme song of an Italian cartoon to me called "Dolce Remi." The protagonist of the cartoon, "Remi Sweetie," goes on adventures playing music with animals, big bearded men and gets hot older Italian women...Or something like that.
It's great. I haven't even been here a month and they are already making cartoons about my life. (Kidding people!)
...But not really.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aemmQKHUrSU&feature=player_embedded
Michel told me the train station I was arriving at in Florence was outside of the city and I would have to take another train to get to the station I wanted. When the train was coming to a stop I exited my train compartment to make sure if it was my stop I didn't miss it. There was a guy and a girl eating M&Ms in the corridor of the train. I approached them and asked them if this was the stop for Florence. The guy said yes, and offered me some M&Ms. They were from Naples and needed to get to the same station as me. If I wouldn't have talked to them I am positive I would have missed the train into town, seeing as it was a bus not a train. I have done pretty good so far with zero nights spent sleeping in the train station.
But I am secretly hoping one of these nights it will happen.